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BE A CONFIDENT SPEAKER
- 1. By Ole Børseth1 BEA CONFIDENTSPEAKER
- 2. By Ole Børseth2 Why communication skills are important ”Effective speaking is more than saying a few words to an audience: It is the revealing expression of a human personality”
- 3. By Ole Børseth3 What are good communication skills? ”If you are unable to say clearly what you mean, through either nervousness, timidity or foggy thought-processes, your personality is blocked off, dimmed out and misunderstood.
- 4. By Ole Børseth4 HOWWILLYOUBENEFIT? BECOME MORE SELF ASSURED ACHIEVE SUCCESS GAIN BROADER NETWORK BE ABLE TO PERSUADE AND CONVINCE
- 5. By Ole Børseth5 STEP 4 LOOKING LIKE THE REAL DEAL STEP 3 SOUNDING LIKE THE REAL DEAL STEP 2 ORGANIZING YOUR THOUGHTS FOURSTEPPROCESS STEP 1 REMOVING FEAR OF PUBLIC SPEAKING My process work I have been working professionally with public speaking the last 4 years of my life. Now I have made my experience and knowledge easy to get for listeners. And I make it work for you By being informative, engaging, unusual and memorable.
- 7. 7 THEFACTS about the fear of public speaking 7
- 8. By Ole Børseth8 SPEAKING QUICKLY EYE- GAZINGSWALLOW KEEP THESE IN MIND
- 9. By Ole Børseth9 MAKEFAKECONFIDENCEREAL Mental and physical tips Take pressure of yourself. You are not important. You are not looking at me. I am looking at you. Answer questions. Looking strong.
- 10. 10 BREATHING
- 11. 11 THEPOWER POSE Apply before a demanding social situation Image description Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet
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- 14. By Ole Børseth14 TWO PART Organizing your thoughts
- 15. 15 INTRODUCTION The introduction can make or break your presentation. Make it a priority. 15
- 16. By Ole Børseth16 STAYINGCONNECTED YOURSELF THE AUDIENCE
- 17. By Ole Børseth17 HOWITSHOULDLOOK STUDYING YOUR TOPIC You need superior knowledge in your presentation ONE THOUGHT AT A TIME Simple words. Short sentences. CHOOSING THE PATH Identify your desired outcome. Informative? Engaging? Confident? Convincing?
- 21. By Ole Børseth21 21 YOUR VOICE PLAYWITH
- 22. By Ole Børseth22 THREESTEPPROCESSOFSOUNDINGLIKETHEREALDEAL WORDS VOICE PAUSE Use simple words and refrain from using conjunctions. Enunciate your words. Change pace, volume and inflection to use your voice to the fullest. Pauses connects you with the audience and makes the speaker seem confident.
- 24. 24 THEEYES
- 25. By Ole Børseth25 70%of a presentationis visuals 25 LOOKING LIKE THE REAL DEAL
- 28. By Ole Børseth28 THREESTEPPROCESSOFLOOKINGLIKETHEREALDEAL BODY LANGUAGE HANDS FACE AND EYES Makes you sound interesting. Helps us stay calm. Get distance between elbow and ribs. Change the motion of the hands to match the content. Manage your facial expression by visualizing what you are talking about, as you are talking about it.
Notes de l'éditeur
- Story about talking and choking. I’m Ole Borseth, and I am going to tell you how to enjoy success in your personal, social and professional life.
- If we take a look around us in the world we live in, we come to see that communication is all around us, and the ones who enjoys success in their professional and personal life are good at communicating. Words have changed the world before, and will do it again. Examples: Gandhi, Hitler, Obama. Even Trump.
- Ask the audience. For me: Looking and sounding confident Being able to inform and engage an audience at the same time.
- More self assured when walking up to someone By knowing how to dispose your words, you will be able to persuade and convince. People see confidence as a strength, and more people will want you in their network. Success is relative.
- ----- Møtenotater (29.06.16 12:44) ----- You will acchieve this, by following my 4-step progress. Starting with the basics of how to fighting your fear, giving you methods of creating informative and engaging presentations. Then going over to the really fun stuff about playing with words, voice and tone. And then in the end, I will show you how to look like the real deal when talking.
- ----- Møtenotater (11.07.16 13:38) ----- 1. You are not unique in your fear of public speaking 2. A certain amount of stage fright is useful 3. Many professional speakers do not completely get rid of their stage fright 4. The main cause of fear of public speaking, is because you are not used to it.
- • Communicating with confidence means having the ability to manage our body language and don’t give away tells that we are nervous. Tells of being uncomfortable: speaking quickly fidgeting touching or glasses or hair. Or we use throw away words like "you know" or "like.» and swallowing.
- • Take pressure of yourself. You are not important. • You do not need to be a perfect speaker. Making fake confidence real • Shaking hands solution: Big hand gestures
- Write the word breathe on every page of your presentation. Breathe when you are listening. Helps relaxing and thinking more clearly. Breathe out, belly in – Breathe in, belly out.
- Wonder Woman got it figured out. What does this achieve?
- Use index cards, or cue cards to organize thoughts. With each card only containing one thought, its easy to remove and place somewhere else. Start by defining the purpose of the presentation. Main Ideas are the three or four principle points I want to communicate to my audience Strong content is critical Don’t use conjunctions to link your thoughts. And, but which, rather, however etc. Make point and put a period in there. Identify your desired outcome Do you want to: Persuade people?Are you introducing a new idea? What is it you need to consider the conversation or presentation a success? What words best speak for how I want to be seen?
- Avoid getting unfavourable attention Do not open with an apology Avoid the funny store opening Support your main ideas Use statistics Use the testimony of experts Use analogies Begin with your talk with an incident, arouse suspense for the audience, state an arresting fact, use an exhibit, ask for a show of hands or promise to tell the audience how they can get something they want.
- Stay connected to yourself. Do not start hurling words. One-way communication is a trap. Stay connected with the audience with two-way communication. One thought – one time. Gives the right facial expression, the right vocal inflection. Pay attention to how people recieve information.
- You have to know your topic, and your presentation. Use simple words Use short sentences One thought, one time, one short sentence. leave your audience with the one thought you need them to remember going forward. Call to action: Tell your audience what you want them to do or what you need from them as a result of your information Examples: PLease get back to me in one week with your reaction. Or: I want your business.
- Women use on average 20.000 words a day, men on average 7.000 a day How many of those words served a purpose? Choose your words carefully Express words meaningfully by making every sentence sound different Mechanical approach: Emphazise words Enunciate every word Excercise designed to limber up the lips: Hold a pen between your teeth and gently clamp down. Start reading with the pen between your lips and enunciate each word for a minute. Choosing our words carefully, expressing them meaningfully, and enunciating them clearly is how we make our words count.
- Avoid uptalk. Uptalk is when we end sentences on up-inflections. Makes us sound uncertain Avoid hedging: Using qualifying phrases like "sort of", "kind of," or "it seems like" Be mindful about how often we say "I think" and "I believe" "I think it is important to be a confident communicatior" or "Its important to be a confident communicator"
- Play with your voice. Take people on a ride with your voice. Standing while you speak adds energy in your voice Change your tone and/or speak more loudly or more softly to stress important points. When you are asking something to do something, a softer voice works best. Experiment with voice in everyday conversation Use your voice to the fullest: Change pace, volume and inflection Slowing down Stretch vowel sounds in each word. Allows you to linger longer, and connect to its meaning and impact Focus on what you say, as you are saying it. Be comfortable with silence. Slowing down exercice. If you say uh or uhm the audience claps. Be sure to breathe in the pause.
- Stop talking to create attention. Pauses are powerful. Pausing lets a speaker connect with the audience in a more meaningful way What happens when we speak quickly is that we're not giving people ample time to hear, listen, think, process, assimilate, and store what we say. Pausing shows we are confident Pause: Before and after each sentence After something important After a rhetorical question After a request or call to action Write "pause" on each index card, to remind yourself
- "The eyes are the window to the soul“ You can tell a lot about a person from looking at his eyes Racing brain syndrome Darting eyes makes us look lacking in confidence Deliver one thought, one time, one face. It helps us act more calm Be mindful not to stay on the same face Funny exercise you can do in everyday conversation
- What should you do with your hands when speaking? Example Talking with hands is natural for us and makes us look more interesting The hands are connected to our voice. Using our hands makes us sound more interesting. Talking with your hands in a clear manner, make you seem like a leader. Example Rids us with anxiety
- If using your hands is new to you, you will feel awkward. Get some distance between your ribcage and elbows Keep them out, even when not talking. Rolling movement to convey progression. Side to side to compare topics. When you want to convey a warmer side: Palms up. Be careful not to use to much hand movement When it makes no sense When it is repetetive When it doesnt match your message You do not need to use hands for every word. Just keep in mind your energy levels when dropping them down.
- To look like you mean what you are talking about. Your facial expressions has to match your voice. Visualize what you talk about, while talking about it. When the facial expression doesnt match the words, you send out mixed messages. Example. Our eyes lead the way. We want to convey confidence, conviction and a connection. Looking up conveys uncertainty and undermines our belieavebility. We do this because we think visually. Can we instead start looking down? Looking down makes us look thoughtful.