7 Habits

Paññāsāstra University of
Cambodia
Course: Personal Growth
Lecturer: Prof. Kol Pheng
Prepared by Group 2:
1. Sok Arunwattey (leader) 2. Van Modavin
3. Sokhom Romanea 4. Or lineth
5. Oum Ratha 6. Chea Sotheary
7. Ros Pangha
Habit 1 Be Proactive
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I. Introduction
Habit 1, Be proactive says “I
am the force.
Being Proactive is not about
doing the right thing. It is
about taking responsibility
for yourself and your life.
You are the captain of your
life

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Proactive or Reactive
?
Why be proactive?
3

Proactive or Reactive(con.)

Proactive or Reactive(con.)
The choice is yours !!!!!!

I can’t believe I am in the same place.
But, it isn’t my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.
III
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in. It’s a habit.
My eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It is my fault. I get out immediately.
III
I walk around it.
V
I walk down another street.
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Autobiography in
Five Short Chapters
From There’s a Hole in My Sidewalk
By Portia Nelson
I
I walk down the street.
I fall in.
I am lost…. I am hopeless.
It isn’t my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.
II
I pretend I don’t see it.
I fall in again.
How to be proactive
6

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How to be proactive(con.)
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Four special human endowments give us
this power:
Self-awareness – the understanding that you do
have a choice between stimulus and response
Conscience – the ability to consult your inner
compass to decide what is right for you.
Creative Imagination – the ability to visualize
alternative responses
Independent Will – You have the freedom to
choose your own unique response.
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How to be proactive(con.)
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Conclusion
“Whether I fail or succeed shall be
no man’s doing but my own. I am
the force; I can clear any obstacle
before me or I can be lost in the
maze. My choice; my
responsibility; win or lose, only I
hold the key to my destiny.”
ELAINE MAXWELL

Cambodia
7. Ros Pangha
Habit 2 Begin with
the end in mind

Introduction
What does “Begin with the End in
mind” mean ?????
• Deciding where you want to
go in life go in life
•Deciding what your values
are and setting goals
•Thinking beyond today
•Deciding what direction you
want to take with your life

The basic of begin with the end of
mind

1. Mental Creation
The Mental Creation is similar to a blueprint or
recipe.
– determine one way of the your crossroad.
– create a personal mission statement
– Uncovering your talent

Let’s take a look at the first important reason.
So here you are. You’re young. You’re free. You
have your whole life before you. You’re
standing at the crossroads of life and have to
choose which part to take:
College
Friends
Sex
Work
Drugs
The crossroad of life

A personal Mission Statement
A personal mission statement is
• a personal credo or motto that
states what your life is about.
• the blueprint to your life.
• a tree with deep roots. It is stable
and isn’t going anywhere, but it is
also alive and continually
growing.
I will live by my own policies.
I will sleep with a clear
conscience.
I will sleep in peace.

Uncovering your Talents
• Is an important part of developing a personal
mission statement that discovering what we
are good.
• EX: All people have different talent as some
people have good voice for singing that can
track a lot of attention, some can make fanny
for other laugh….

The physical creation is the
actual product of those
plans. It follows the mental.
1. Physical Creation

Conclusion
• Begin with the end in mind
which means to have clear goal
is the combination of mental
creation and physical creation
• Learning to Begin with the End
in Mind is a powerful way to
help adults and teens turn
dreams into reality.

Cambodia
7. Ros Pangha
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Be Prioritizer, consider what is the most important thing to do first…

Put First Things First, can help. It all about
learning to prioritize and manage your time so
that your first things come first, not last.
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Introduction

Put First Things First?
• Habit 3 the habit of will-power (the strength to say
yes to your most important things) and won’t-power
(the strength to say no to less important things and
to peer pressure).
• The Time Quadrants that help you manage your time
more efficiently, are made up of ‘Important’ and
‘urgent’.
Important: your most important things, activities
that contribute to your mission and your goals
Urgent: in-your-face things, activities that
demand immediate attention
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The Time Quadrants
- The Procrastinator: Someone who always puts their
work(which important and urgent) off and off until
the last minute.
- The Prioritizer: Someone who does their work which is
very important even though it’s not urgent.
- The Yes-Man: Someone who has a hard time to say no
to anything or anyone(urgent activities) even though
it’s not important.
- The Slacker: It refers to something that is not urgent
nor important. Someone who waste their time
without doing anything important.
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The Four Quadrants

Just leave the comfort zone already, and enter the courage zone with me…..
How can you do ‘Put
first things first’ if you
fear to step out of the
comfort zone?
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Things that affect the habit 3

Wining Means Rising Each Time You Fall
-Losing means you have gained a new experience, so then
you should start to learn its fault and aim to win
Be Strong in the Hard Moments
-Don’t give up! fighting with your spirit against the hard
moment
Overcoming Peer Pressure
-Your thought is more important than other people’s. Just
build up your self-confident and self-respect with your
missions and goal.
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Things that affect the habit 3 (con.)

Put first things first is a very important habit for
people who need to manage their time more
efficiently, and it’s also one of a habit that make
people consider what most important and
urgent things that they should do first or later,
so that they can reach their goal.
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Conclusion

Cambodia
7. Ros Pangha
Habit 4: Think Win-Win

Introduction
Think Win-Win is the foundation for getting
along well with other people. It begins with the
belief that we are all equal, that no one is
inferior or superior to anyone else, and no one
really needs to be.

Win-Lose- The Totem Pole
A Win-Lose attitude wears many faces. The following
are some of them:
•Using other people emotionally or physically, for your
own selfish purposes.
•Trying to get ahead at the expense of another.
•Spreading rumors about someone else(as if putting
someone else down builds you up).
•Always insisting on getting your way without
concerning yourself with the feelings of others.
•Becoming jealous and envious when something good
happens to someone close to you.

Lose-Win- The Doormat
Lose-Win looks prettier on the surface, but it’s
just as dangerous as Win-Lose. It’s the doormat
syndrome. If you adopt Lose-Win as your basic
attitude toward life, then people will wipe their
dirty feet on you. And that’s not healthy.

Lose-Lose- The Downward Spiral
 Lose-Lose says, “If I’m going to down, then
you’re going to down with me, sucker.”
 Lose-Lose is usually what happens when tow
Win-Lose people get together.
 Lose-Lose can also occur when someone
becomes obsessed with another person in a
negative way.

Win-Win
The All You-Can Eat Buffet
• Win-Win is a belief that everyone can win. It’s
both nice and tough all at once.
• Win-Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s
plenty of success to go around. It’s not a matter
of who gets the biggest piece of pie. There’s
more than enough food for everyone. It’s an all-
you-can-eat buffet.

How to Think Win-Win
• Win the Private Victory First: It all begins with you, take
responsible for your self, and gets a plan in place, your
confidence and security will increase and you’ll start
enjoying other people instead of being threatened them.
• Avoid the Tumor Twins:
1. Competing:
 Competition is healthy when you compete against
yourself.
 Competition becomes dark when you tie your self-worth
into winning or when you use it as a way to place yourself
above other.
2. Comparing
 Comparing yourself can become an addiction as strong asPrepared by Group 2 33

The Fruits of The Win-Win Spirit
If you are big hearted, committed to helping
others succeed, and willing to share recognition,
you will be a magnet for friends.
The most surprising benefit of thinking Win-Win
is the good feelings it brings on.

Conclusion
Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your
judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
However, thinking Win-Win will fill your heart
with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you
confidence. Even you fill with light.

Cambodia
7. Ros Pangha
Habit 5: Seek First to be Understand,
then to be Understood

Habit 5:
Seek first to understand,
then to be understood.
Before I can walk in another’s shoes, I must first
remove my own.
- Unknown

Introduction
Why this habit is the key to communication?
Human deeply need is very important in
communication. People will never trust people
who don’t understand their need and what they
want.

Five poor listening styles

Spacing Out
• When people talking, your mind is in
somewhere else like you are daydreaming or
lost in your though.

Pretend Listening
• You are not paying attention while people
talking, and respond with short reply.
I tried to tell her
that I have
nothing to do
with Nari, but she
just ignored
me…..
Uh huh..
Talking… Pretending to listening…

Selective Listening
• While people talking, you’re only listening to
what or part that you are interesting.

Word Listening
• You’re only listen to what people are talking
but you ignore their gestures and deep
meaning.
Self-Centered Listening
• When you listen to what people talking, but
only in your point of view like you think that
they think the same as you.

Judging
• If you had time to judge what people say, then
you don’t have time to understand what they
mean.
Advising
• You are giving advice from own experience or
received from elders to other people.

GENUINE LISTENING
•There is higher form of listening, fortunately, which lead
to real communication.
•You need to do tree things differently to do genuine
listening.

First, listen with your eyes, heart,
and ears.

 Second, stand in their shoes: To become a genuine
listener, need to take off your shoes and stand in
another’s.
 Third, practice mirroring: Think like a mirror.
GENUINE LISTENING (con.)

Genuine Listening in Action
Is to making sense when other people talking
with us.
Ex: Your friend tell you about the problem in
his family, you should genuine listening what
his main point problem.

Conclusion
This habit is very important in communication.
If you are not good at listening then it leads
you to misunderstanding other people’s need,
and it causes on the how to you’re judging
and giving advice to other people which make
them feel unsatisfied.

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7. Ros Pangha
Habit 6: Synergize

Synergize
“Alone we can do so
little; together we can do
a lot.”
What does “synergize” mean?
In nutshell, synergy is
achieved when two or more
people work together to
create a better solution than
either could alone. It’s not
your way or my way but a
better way, a higher way. "Two heads are better than one."

Celebrating Difference
. Synergy doesn’t just happen. It’s a process. You
have to get there. And the foundation of getting
there is this: Learn to celebrate differences.

• Great teams are usually made up of five or
more different types of people, with each
member playing a different but important
role.
- Plodders
- Followers
- Innovators
- Harmonizers
- Show-offs
Teamwork And Synergy

Basketball Olympian Deborah Miller Palmore
said it well: “Even when you’ve played the game
of your life, it’s the feeling of teamwork that
you’ll remember. You’ll forget the plays, the
shots, and the scores, but you’ll never forget
your teammates.”
Teamwork And Synergy

Conclusion
Synergy is the
ability to create
more together
with others than
we can by
ourselves.

Cambodia
Lecturer: Dr. Kol Pheng
1.Sok Arunwattey (leader)
2.Van Modavin
3.Sokhom Romanea
4.Or lineth
5.Oum Ratha
6.Chea Sotheary
7.Ros Pangha

What is habit 7 “Sharpen the Saw” all about?
I. Introduction
It is all about:
• Keeping your personal shelf sharp so that
you can better deal with life.
• time to relax and unstring your bow, time to
treat yourself to little tender loving care.

II. The Four Keys Dimension of life

The four key ingredients to a healthy body:
•Good sleeping habits
•Physical relaxation
•Good nutrition
•Proper exercise
1. Caring for your body

The mental dimension of habit 7 means
developing brain power through your shooling,
extracurricular, hobbies, jobs, and other mind-
enlarging experiences activities.
2. Caring for your brain
Here are some tips to develop your
brain:
•Read
•Listen
•Educate
•Write
•Learn new skillsPrepared by Group 2 61

The first way to sharpen the saw and nourish
your hurt is to focus on building relationship.
RBA (Relationship Bank Account) Deposits
• Keep your promises
• Do small acts of kindness
• Listen
• Say you’re sorry
• Set clear expectation
3. Caring for your heart

soul is the source for purpose, meaning, and
inner peace.
There are many different way to feed it.
o Meditating
o servings others
o writing in a journal
o going for a walk
o Reading in spiring books
o Drawing, thinking deeply etc.
4. Caring for your soul

III. Conclusion
• Teens should never get too busy living to take time
to renew themselves.
• When a teen "sharpens the saw" they are keeping
their personal self sharp so that they can better deal
with life.
• It means regularly renewing and strengthening the
four key dimensions of life – body, brain, heart, and
soul.

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