This is a slide deck from my Spring 2021 section of The Art of Self-Coaching at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. Course materials are archived at https://www.edbatista.com/the-art-of-self-coaching-course.html.
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Exercise & small group 20 mins
Partner exercises 50 mins
Small group discussion 15 mins
For next time… 5 mins
No outside of class activity
Agenda
5. Unhappiness
Reflect and take some notes
Prepare to discuss with your group
What is it like to bear witness to this?
What does it evoke for you? How do you feel?
22. Buddhism
Photo by Sarah J [link]
Maybe the most important teaching
is to lighten up and relax.
~Pema Chödrön
23. Buddhism
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Seeking pleasure is an opportunity to observe
what we do in the face of pain.
~Pema Chödrön
24. Buddhism
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Resisting our addiction to avoiding pain
Being inquisitive & open to experience
(Comfort with discomfort)
(Mindfulness)
25. Buddhism
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What we call obstacles are really the way
the world teaches us where we’re stuck.
~Pema Chödrön
(Mental models)
26. Buddhism
Photo by Sarah J [link]
Death is wanting to have every experience
confirm you and congratulate you and
make you feel completely together.
~Pema Chödrön
(Growth mindset)
42. If you feel
An opportunity to practice what we’ve learned
EMOTION (Reframing, Talking About Feelings)
RESILIENCE (Empathy, Reaching Out)
Self-coaching is SOCIAL
unsettled…