This presentation was prepared for a high school Parent Teacher Organization to inform parents of the social media apps and sites local teens are using in spring 2014. The presentation includes an overview of particular apps and sites, as well as their terms of service and appropriateness for teen users. Parents are also given tips about helping teens develop a good digital footprint and referred to resources that will help them make social media decisions for their own teens.
1. Social Media
An informational class
for parents
of teens and tweens.
March 18, 2014
Bradwell Institute
Hinesville, GA
2. What we’ll cover today:
Introduction
Overview of Laws that Affect Social Media Use
Sites Local Teens are Using
Your Role in Keeping Your Teen Safe
Talking to Your Teen About Their Digital Footprint
Resources for Keeping You & Your Teen Informed
4. CIPA
CIPA requires school and libraries receiving E-rate funding
for Internet access to adopt an internet safety policy that
addresses:
Safety and Security of minors using e-mail and other forms of
direct electronic communication
Unauthorized access or unlawful activity by minors online
Unauthorized disclosure, use and dissemination of the
personal information of minors
Measures to restrict minors’ access to material harmful to
minors
Education for minors about appropriate online behavior
5. COPPA
Websites that collect information from children under the
age of thirteen are required to comply with the Federal
Trade Commission Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act.
COPPA applies to websites and
apps that are directed to
children under 13.
Most of the apps we’ll talk about
are intended for 13+ or 17+.
7. Your Good Sense
[insert 0:30 Family Dinner video here—or go to link]
http://youtu.be/c-66I2glzZk
8. Specific Sites Popular with Local Teens
The sites we’ll cover today are used by teens in this school. The purpose of
showing you these sites is not to scare you, but to inform you, so that you
can make the call whether these sites are appropriate for your teen.
10. Name of app
How the app works
Special features and additional
information
Issues or concerns
Screenshot
or
Example
11. ask.fm
Ask.fm users ask questions and answer
questions posted by
other—anonymous—users.
Ask.fm users have the option of
recording themselves with a webcam to
answer a question.
Bullying is a major concern. In 2013, ten
teen suicides were directly linked to
bullying on ask.fm.
12. Yik Yak
Yik Yak users may send comments
anonymously.
Those who see the comments don’t have to
have an account; they only have to be
logged on.
Yik Yak uses location services to bring
comments to a user’s feed from other users
nearby.
Bullying is a major concern with Yik Yak, which
has specifically been a platform for racist
bullying and violent threats at a number of
high schools and colleges.
13. Snapchat
Snapchat has major privacy issues. Contrary to
Snapchat’s FAQs statement that “snaps disappear
after the timer runs out,” snaps can be saved via
screen capture or through a built-in retrievability
code.
Teens don’t initially go to Snapchat to sext or
bully, they go to socialize in an online environment
that seems “safer” because they think the data they
share disappears.
There are numerous ways to “screen capture” a
Snapchat photo. Once you send your photo
digitally, you lose control of it.
Snapchat advertises itself as an app that lets you send media
to your friends that will get deleted automatically.
14. Apps to Hide Apps
There are a number of apps that “hide”
pictures, folders, and other apps.
Can you tell which of these icons represents my Secret
Folder?
Don’t be afraid to investigate what is in your teen’s
folders.
Don’t be afraid to talk to your teen about which apps
they are using and who they connect with on them.
And, don’t be afraid to reset or take away your teen’s
access if they are putting themselves in danger.
15. kik
Kik Messenger is an app-based alternative to
standard texting as well as a social networking app
for smartphones.
Kik should only be used by teens who can discern the
difference between texting people individually, with
groups, and within a social networking environment.
This tool is for older teens and adults who will use it to
communicate with family and friends, and who will
not give out personal information to Kik users they
don't know.
Teens will need close guidance on safety and privacy
if they're going to use it.
16. Tumblr
Search results for
#Divergent
Search results for
#Hinesville
These represent things a typical teen may
search for on Tumblr—and the results may
include things you either don’t want your teen
exposed to or that you at least want to be
aware your teen is being exposed to.
17. Privacy & Safety Strategies
for Tumblr
Tumblr is a blog format that allows users to combine
text, videos, photos, and audio clips.
Tumblr relies on users to identify material they upload as
NSFW (not safe for work) or innappropriate.
If your think your mature and responsible teen is ready for
Tumblr, talk with them and monitor the content they post.
Talk to your teen about the content they could be exposed
to on Tumblr and make clear what they should do if they
discover inappropriate content.
If you are not comfortable with your teen using Tumblr, block
it until you think they are ready.
18. Twitter
Twitter is a free "microblogging" and social networking
site that allows users to post 140-character messages
called “tweets.”
Users can keep their tweets private and approve
individual followers. This is a potentially good way for
teens to “get their feet wet” in social media.
Twitter is increasingly being used as a promotional tool
for products and celebrities so limit your teen’s
exposure to ads by keeping their Twitter circle among
real friends.
Users can choose to post their location along with
each Tweet—not a great idea for teens.
If your teen is ready for social media, Twitter can be
used as an education tool as well as a social
networking tool.
19. Instagram
Instagram is a photo and video sharing
social networking service.
If your teen is ready for Instagram, go
through the privacy settings together and
talk about what is (and is not)
appropriate to share on social media.
Search results for graphic terms can
include graphic pictures.
Instagram does have built in features to
report inappropriate content, but your
teen cannot “unsee” what they have
seen.
20. Facebook
Facebook is an online social network
on which users can share status
updates, pictures, and video.
Facebook updates its features
frequently, which can change
privacy settings—so if your teen is
ready for Facebook, regularly check
their privacy settings.
If your teen is ready for
Facebook, check regularly to ensure
they are “Friends” with only people
they know in real life.
22. Danger Zone
Avoid social media tools and apps that allow users to avoid
responsibility for what they post, or that promise what you post is
“anonymous” or will “disappear.”
Nothing on the Internet disappears, or is truly private.
23. Proceed with Caution
• Talk to your teen about the types of social media you are comfortable
with them trying.
• Investigate and set the privacy settings together.
• Check regularly to ensure your teen is making good decisions and is
online friends only with people they actually know.
24. Only you can give the Green Light
You know your teen best.
It is up to you to decide whether they are ready for social media at all.
26. Your Teen’s Digital Footprint
Nothing ever truly
disappears in the digital
world, and everything you
post on social media shapes
people's impression of you.
The impression that you give
on social media and the
Internet is often called your
Digital Footprint. What
impression are you giving?
Are you happy with your
Digital Footprint? And, if you
aren't, what can you do to
change it?
27. Discovering
Your Teen’s Digital Footprint
Use a search engine like Google or Yahoo to search your teen’s name and
username(s).
Use a site like Spokeo or PeekYou to review what information is publicly
available about your teen.
Review the apps your teen uses on their smartphone and the computer and
talk about what information they gave to sign up for each account.
Look at what your teen posts, blogs, and shares on the Internet (even the
information they share “privately” can easily become public).
Talk about how what they posts is viewed by others and how it could affect
them if it is seen by a college admissions office, military recruiter, or hiring
manager.
28. Building
Your Teen’s Digital Footprint
Talk with your teen about how everything they do online combines to create
their Digital Footprint.
Make your teen aware of the importance of having a Digital Footprint they
are proud of.
Point out and share news stories and other information about positive and
negative consequences of online behavior.
Explore online resources with your teen to discover more about the social
media tools and apps they hear about and want to use.
29. Tips to Take With You
Get involved
Learn about social media platforms with your teen
Investigate the social media your teen is using
Check and use privacy settings
Advise your teen about what content is appropriate to
share
Delete and block inappropriate content
30. For Further Information
Please visit our website at
http://bimediacentersocialmedia.weebly.com
To find more resources, information, and links to online tools that
will help you and your teen use social media for positive social
interaction and learning.
Notice that CIPA is about school and library policies—but think about how you can apply these to the way you protect your own minor in your home…how you can adapt these to your own family’s approach to social media and Internet usehttp://www.ftc.gov/news-events/press-releases/2012/12/ftc-strengthens-kids-privacy-gives-parents-greater-control-over
This is why when your teen was younger and signed up for the Disney game site, PBS Kids site, or other children’s website, you got an e-mail that verified that you knew what your child had signed up for and what information they gave to sign up.Recommend http://www.onguardonline.gov/articles/0031-protecting-your-childs-privacy-onlinehttp://www.ftc.gov/news-events/press-releases/2012/12/ftc-strengthens-kids-privacy-gives-parents-greater-control-over
You are the gatekeeper for your teen. While CIPA and COPPA are good for their purpose, they are not going to keep your teen from accessing social media sites that could be harmful to them. You are the one who is going to do that. What we talk about today, and the resources and links we collected on our website, should help you feel confident in doing that.
Before we dive in to talking about specific sites, let’s watch this brief video together. [watch video]On one hand, this video is funny—we can’t help but be embarrassed for everyone at the table.On the other hand, this video demonstrates the very serious way in which our teens can expose themselves (quite literally) to the world without realize that the information they put out via social media is never truly private, and never really disappears.
You’ve probably heard of Twitter and Facebook—and if you follow the news you’ve heard about a few other ways that students are connecting on social media. Most teens use their smartphones to access social media, which means they are using apps. We’re going to walk through a few of these apps that are being used by students in our community, and we’re going to talk about the appropriateness of each of these apps for teens. We live in a connected world, and it is important that we as parents know what our teens and tweens have access to.
A quick overview of how the information on these slides are organized.Note: The age that appears in the top is the age the apps Terms of Service recommend—NOT the age recommended by me or your media specialists
Ask.fm does have privacy settings. But they are ineffective and do not prevent the type of posts and behavior you see in the screen capture above.http://www.today.com/tech/parents-raise-concerns-over-social-network-ask-fm-8C11542385
I am a grown woman, presenting to a room full of adults—and I was uncomfortable placing a screenshot of the Yik Yak feed on this slide. That should give you an indication of the type of posts that are on Yik Yak. Instead of a screen shot of a Yik Yak chat feed, I included a screen shot of the first ten results that pop up in a Google News search about Yik Yak. Obviously, this is not a place you want your teens to “hang out.”http://www.wfxg.com/story/24516088/new-app-causing-bullying-issues-in-schoolshttp://www.hercampus.com/school/gcsu/yik-yak-attacks-setting-us-back
The biggest issue with Snapchat stems from the advertisement of Snapchat as a safe place to share things on social media because they “disappear.” My guess is that is why the two guys in the picture above were willing to let someone snap a photo of a situation that should not have happened anyway, judging by their surroundings. Nothing on social media disappears. Ever. Talk to your kids about this stuff. I showed my twelve-year-old the photos above and asked him how he would feel if his 80-some year old grandmother (who checks her e-mail, Facebook, and online news every day) would feel if she came across this posted on the Internet—and it was on the Internet…not on Snapchat!
IF this is something you let your 17+ teen use, encourage them to create a unique, hard-to-find user name.One setting that may make this an app to look at for older, very mature and responsible, teens of 17+:Ignore New PeopleThe 'Ignore New People' feature allows you to hide messages you receive from people you've never talked to before, and turns off notifications for those messages. If you don't want to see inbound messages from people you don't know, you don't have to.
There is an option for a private Tumblr blog—but you and your teen will have to create a public account first to then create a private account. Even with a private account—your teen could be exposed to pictures that are racy, raunchy, or just plain pornographic. This may not be how it “should be” on the web, but it is important that we know what our children will encounter.
For links to resources and tutorials that will help you block Tumblr and other content, please visit the resources website {handout??}
…educational information by searching a particular hashtag or author, for example
Talk to your teen about what they plan to share on InstagramHelp your teen set their posts to private so that anyone who wants to see their posts must send a follower requestShow your teen how to block users who they do not want to view their photos or videosShow your teen the built-in reporting features they can use to report inappropriate content
This screenshot doesn’t represent the worst or (obviously) the best of Facebook, but it does show you one of the biggest problems surrounding Facebook privacy settings…http://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/how-to-report/