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What got you
here Won’t get you there How to choose a life you love 1 © 2014 Lawyers What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Intentions of the
day Create the possibility to choose a life you love and live it NOW © 2014 Lawyers 2 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Agenda 8:00am –
9:45am Discussion/Work 9:45am – 10:00am Morning Break 10:00am – 11:45am Discussion/Work 11:45am – 1:00pm Lunch 1:00pm – 2:30pm Discussion/Work 2:30pm – 3:00pm End of Day Debrief © 2014 Lawyers 3 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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People don’t stumble
on success; they choose it! Marshall Goldsmith Author: “What Got You Here Won’t Get you There” © 2014 Lawyers 4 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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How did you
get where you are today? Activity 1: Where am I? © 2014 Lawyers 5 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Now that you
know what got you where you are, where do you want to go? What do you choose going forward? © 2014 Lawyers 6 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Where were we
just 21 months ago when the WHY program started? © 2014 Lawyers 7 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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January 29, 2013
You must be what you want from the world Mindset § Expectations/Leadership/Contribution Skill Set § What is Blue?/MIFy™/Reflecting Goal Set § Future Focuser/Monthly/Weekly/Daily © 2014 Lawyers 8 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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June 4, 2013
Whose perspective are you in? How do you/others see the world? § Past experiences/habits/beliefs/bias Whose Right? § Getting to “and” § WATT™ are they thinking Conflict Resolution § GoDumb™ © 2014 Lawyers 9 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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October 22, 2013
Why be in a why conversation? Thinking vs. Declaring § Idea Focuser Making ideas real requires action § Implementation Focuser Progress vs. Transformation § WHY Formula: E2+I2=P3 E2 = Entrepreneur must envision & enroll I2 = Infrastructure must be improving & impactful P2 = Purpose; professionally, personally & profitably © 2014 Lawyers 10 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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February 7, 2014
Choices R factor question § 3 year/retirement DOS Analysis § Dangers/Opportunities/Strengths Eradicating my destructive past § Choosing what stays and what goes © 2014 Lawyers 11 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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June 13, 2014
Becoming 360° Goal setting § It’s not about the goal, it’s about who we become in the process of getting there § Areas of life that drive or drain you © 2014 Lawyers 12 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Today: Choosing a
future you love and living it now © 2014 Lawyers 13 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Goal setting •
Identify new successes inherently set in the future. • How do we derive the benefits of our goals in the present? • Beware of goal setting for the sake of goal setting. It must be tied to your purpose! • Beware of perfectionism; being so focused on doing it perfectly (or a certain way) that you lose sight of what it was intended to do! © 2014 Lawyers 14 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Do you remember
The gap? Concept of Dan Sullivan of Strategic Coach © 2014 Lawyers 15 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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MANY want to
be “liked,” “Admired” & “respected” and act in a way they feel will get them these. Distinction You must focus on your “purpose” If you do: you will be liked, admired and respected © 2014 Lawyers 16 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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What purpose (Success)
do I seek and how can I choose it rather than Waiting for it occur (or not) Decide vs. Choose © 2014 Lawyers 17 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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What’s the difference?
• “Decide” • “Choose” Past Based Closes off Future Based Opens up When you say them, how do you feel about what comes after the word? 18 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There © 2014 Lawyers with Purpose, LLC
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You can’t “Decide”
the future, You can only “Choose” the future Decide is limited to what you already know (past) Choosing is limited to what you can imagine (future) But all we ever have is now (present) © 2014 Lawyers 19 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Everyone gets a
past, a present and a future. It’s what we do Now that distinguishes us. © 2014 Lawyers 20 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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How can we
choose a future we love and derive the joys of it Now (in the present) Success and joy is not a destination, it’s a manner of traveling © 2014 Lawyers 21 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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How most people
operate 2. Trudge through past or try to rid “pain” and make present better Past Present Future 1. Look to the past to decide what needs to be improved No Access to Future Something New © 2014 Lawyers 22 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Freedom cycle –
Dan Sullivan 3. Utilize effective past in present to get to the future you choose 1. Choose future “Innovation” Past Present Future 2. Decide what from the past will help you get to the future you choose 5% of the world operates this way 23 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There © 2014 Lawyers with Purpose, LLC
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The present comes
last. You must first choose your future. Then look to your past to decide what to utilize in the present. © 2014 Lawyers 24 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Let’s imagine a
future not limited by our past! Activity #2: Beginning My Freedom Cycle © 2014 Lawyers 25 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Now lets look
to our past, to decide what to focus on to help create a future we can begin living now (present) Activity #3: Progress Focuser © 2014 Lawyers 26 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Now that we
have an idea of the future we are creating, how do we get there? No man is an island. -Thomas Merton © 2014 Lawyers 27 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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What got you
here wont get you there Marshall Goldsmith Hyperion, 2007 © 2014 Lawyers 28 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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“One of the
greatest mistakes of successful people is the assumption: I behave this way and I achieve results, therefore I must be achieving results, because I behave this way” Marshall Goldsmith © 2014 Lawyers 29 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Success happens because
of our behavior and in spite of our behavior, the key is to know the difference Marshall Goldsmith © 2014 Lawyers 30 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Our success is
dependent on… • How we act – (What does the camera see?) § Do we need “approval of others?” § Do we need to “look good?” § Do we contribute to, withdraw from others? • How we speak § Do we say “can’t,” but,” “why,” “problem” § Do we say “can,” “and,” “how,” “challenge” “Successful people believe in themselves and their talents. They see the good in every situation (even bad ones.) They see opportunities where others see threats.” -Marshall Goldsmith © 2014 Lawyers 31 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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How do we
act? What are our habits? We succeed by what we do and… what we don’t do © 2014 Lawyers 32 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Goal: I need/want
to be nicer • Do: § Say please and thank you § Acknowledge people § Listen (MIfy™) • Don’t do: § Interrupt § Be a jerk (short) § Put your needs first § Be late How we speak © 2014 Lawyers 33 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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“That’s the funny
thing about stopping some behavior. It gets no attention, but it can be as crucial as everything else we do combined.” Marshall Goldsmith © 2014 Lawyers 34 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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“as we advance
in our careers, behavioral changes are often the only significant changes we can make.” Marshall Goldsmith © 2014 Lawyers 35 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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There are 20
destructive habits* to our success/joy * Work of Marshall Goldsmith © 2014 Lawyers 36 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Destructive Habits •
Winning too much § The need to win at all costs and in all situations – when it matters, when it doesn’t and when it’s totally beside the point • Adding too much value § The overwhelming desire to add our two cents to every discussion • Passing judgment § The need to rate others and impose our standards on them • Speaking when angry § Using emotional volatility as a management tool © 2014 Lawyers 37 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Destructive Habits •
Making destructive comments § The needless sarcasms and cutting remarks that we think make us sound sharp and witty • Starting with “No,” “But,” or “However” § The overuse of these negative qualifiers which secretly say to everyone, “I’m right. You’re wrong.” • Telling the world how smart we are § The need to show people we’re smarter than they think we are • An excessive need to be “me” § Exalting our faults as virtues simply because they’re who we are © 2014 Lawyers 38 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Destructive Habits •
Negativity, or “Let me explain why it won’t work” § The need to share our negative thoughts even when we weren’t asked • Withholding information § The refusal to share information in order to maintain an advantage over others • Failing to give proper recognition § The inability to praise and reward • Claiming credit that we don’t deserve § The most annoying way to overestimate our contribution to any success © 2014 Lawyers 39 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Destructive Habits •
Making excuses § The need to reposition our annoying behavior as a permanent fixture so people excuse us for it • Clinging to the past § The need to deflect blame away from ourselves an onto events and people from our past • Playing favorites § Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly • Passing the buck § The need to blame everyone else but ourselves © 2014 Lawyers 40 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Destructive Habits •
Refusing to express regret § The inability to take responsibility for our actions, admit we’re wrong or recognize how our actions affect others • Not listening § The most passive-aggressive form of disrespect for colleagues • Failing to express gratitude § The most basic form of bad manners • Punishing the messenger § The misguided need to attack the innocent who are usually only trying to help us © 2014 Lawyers 41 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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How do you
score on destructive habits? Activity #4: Destructive Habits Self-Assessment © 2014 Lawyers 42 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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What would others
say? Activity #5: Destructive Habits 360° Assessment © 2014 Lawyers 43 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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What habits or
ways of being can you start (or stop) to support a future you love? Activity: Complete Insights on Assessments © 2014 Lawyers 44 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Habits of successful
(purposeful) people* • Apologize • Listen • Say “thank you!” *Based on excerpts from Goldsmith’s “What Got You Here Won’t Get You There” © 2014 Lawyers 45 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Apologizing is the
“Magic Move” It allows the past to be Closed Your decision to leave a withdrawal from the past in the past (not take it with you) © 2014 Lawyers 46 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Listening Do’s •
Think before you speak • Listen with Respect (MIfy™) • Ask yourself “is it worth it?” (to speak) © 2014 Lawyers 47 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Listening Don’ts •
Don’t interrupt (can’t listen if talking) • Don’t finish others sentences • Don’t say “I knew that” • Don’t agree with other person (just say thank you) • Don’t use “No,” “But,” or “However” • Don’t be distracted (multitask or let eyes wander) Are you disposed to listen? Let’s see? © 2014 Lawyers 48 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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One minute activity
• Close your eyes and count to fifty – without any other thoughts coming into your mind • If you get distracted, start at the last number you remember saying How far did you get? © 2014 Lawyers 49 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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• Who are
you most grateful for (Living or deceased) • Write down who comes to the top of your mind Would they know you think it? Thank you © 2014 Lawyers 50 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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What is your
purpose? What is your Passion? What do you love to do? Time goes by quickly when doing it. It’s easy to you. Others regularly comment on it. © 2014 Lawyers 51 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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We often focus
on what we need • I need to make $X • I need to buy a house • I need to… © 2014 Lawyers 52 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Be careful; “need”
is often a “worthy” conversation that we feel a need to “justify” Any justification required holds you to your past © 2014 Lawyers 53 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Need vs. Want
• Think of clients who hire/don’t hire you § The ones that need what you do often don’t hire you § The ones that want what you do are your favorite/best clients © 2014 Lawyers 54 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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“Need” requires justification
“Want” requires value recognition It’s all in your thoughts Thoughts can imprison you © 2014 Lawyers 55 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Our past (events/thoughts)
that hold us back can be eradicated “Pastacide” – we must separate the pain from the past, by identifying the lesson from it. Once identified, the pain disappears (Dan Sullivan) © 2014 Lawyers 56 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Beware of activities
devoid of energy! High points in life relate to high energy activities Low points in life relate to low energy activities © 2014 Lawyers 57 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Most interactions in
life are people sharing the low energy activities (Complaining/Judging/etc.) Are you glued to the “news?” © 2014 Lawyers 58 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Where we derive
our energy is great insight to our “Purpose” Where we lose energy is great insight to what stops us from the future we want © 2014 Lawyers 59 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Let’s look at
what gives us energy and what takes our energy and identify how to maximize our high energy Activities Activity #6: Present Focuser © 2014 Lawyers 60 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Today, we focused
on you. Today is already the past What do you choose for your future and what do you decide to take from today (which examined your past and identified the worthy parts), to your present to have the future you seek? Activity: What can I be now to assure a future (and present) I love © 2014 Lawyers 61 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Final Activity My
Four Month Focus © 2014 Lawyers 62 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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Final Debrief First
(10 minutes) In groups of 3-5, share: What I expected was…what I got was… What stands out most from today was… or Share a general comment Then (20 minutes) Each group will share one (1) with the room For this PowerPoint email kruss@lawyerswithpurpose.com © 2014 Lawyers 63 What Got You Here Won’t Get You There with Purpose, LLC
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