2. 23
✓ Improve
communica?on
✓ Reach
agreement
or
advance
resolu?on
✓ Arrive
at
new
possibili?es
✓ Learn
from
another’s
perspec?ve
✓ Allow
for
mul?ple
voices
✓ Understand
resistance
to
change
✓ Surface
outdated
assump?ons
✓ Understand
the
logic
behind
recommenda?ons
Why
the
Ladder?
ü Facilitate
conflict
solu?ons
ü Improve
team
interac?on
ü Open
for
diverse
opinions
ü Prevent
overreac?on
ü Understand
your
immediate
response
to
a
situa?on
ü Uncover
own
&
other
biases
ü Unearth
reasoning
&
origin
of
your
assump?ons
ü Surface
and
test
your
thinking
before
you
discuss
a
topic
3.
Consider
and
Remember
Two
or
more
ladders
in
any
conversa?on
3
✦
Unconscious
&
Automa.c
✦
Auto
Pilot
✦
Mental
Models
✦
Different
Interpreta.ons
✦
Jargon
&
Acronyms
✦
Emo.onally
Charged
Triggers
4. Make
the
Ladder
Work
Observe
from
a
pool
of
all
available
Data
Screen
Data
Take
Ac?on
Select
Filtered
Data
Add
Meaning
Make
Assump?ons,
Draw
Conclusions
&
Adopt
Beliefs
4
5. 5
Intui?on
and
Experience
Count
✦ Trust
flashes
of
insight
✦ Rely
on
lessons
learned
✦ Have
knowledge
&
know-‐how
✦ Been
around
the
block
a
few
.mes
In
addi.on
to
walking
down
the
ladder
23
6. Context
MaVers
Content
=
Actual
words
or
behavior
Context
=
Background
for
content
Contextual
clues
needed
for
shared
meanings
✦
The
framework
✦
The
environment
✦
The
seLng
✦
Like
the
canvas
for
a
pain.ng
Consider
the
villagers
response
when
the
boy
cried
wolf!
6
7. Making
the
Ladder
Work
for
Us
Awareness
Our
natural
tendency
&
comfort
with
default
approach
✦ Self
✦ Others
✦ Situa.on
Advocacy
–
clarifies
my
Ladder
Inquiry
–
explores
your
Ladder
7
8. 8
Default
Posi?on
-‐
Advocacy
or
Inquiry
Natural
Tendency
=
Promote
or
Ques.on
More
Comfortable
Either
Or
Both
Can
LEARN
to
be
more
Adept
9. Advocacy
9
✦ Reveals
your
thinking
✦ Describes
the
data
you’re
operating
from
✦ States
your
assumptions
✦ Inquires
into
other
people’s
reactions
to
your
point
of
view
✦ Encourages
others
to
provide
different
perspectives
or
question
yours
✦ Helps
you
listen
with
an
open
mind
Purpose
of
Advocacy
10. Inquiry
10
✦ Expands
current
understanding
✦ Explores
how
another
person
views
the
world
✦ Advances
genuine
curiosity
✦ Encourages
openness
to
another’s
perspective
✦ Promotes
Inquiry
not
Inquisition
Purpose
of
Inquiry
11. Climb
UP
Advoca?ng
Reveal
your
thinking
and
how
you
arrived
at
your
conclusion
Move
up
one
rung
at
a
.me
allowing
others
to
follow
your
thought
process
11
12. Ques?ons
to
ask
when
Advoca?ng
“What
quesAons
do
you
sAll
have?”
“Does
it
make
sense
to
you?”
“What
am
I
missing?”
12
15. Ques?ons
to
ask
when
Inquiring
“What
do
you
mean
when
you
say…?”
“Is
there
a
different
word
or
phrase
that
would
help
clarify
your
meaning?”
15
16. Inquiry
Challenge
&
RISK
Difficult
to
listen
and
not
defend
Culture
usually
rewards
having
answers
16
17. Balancing
Advocacy
&
Inquiry
✦ Listening
diminishes
✦ Knowledge
not
shared
only
or
over
Advocate
only
or
over
Inquire
17
18. Dysfunc?onal
Use
of
the
Ladder
Intent
to
understand
is
the
cri?cal
condi?on
18
19. 19
Trust
-‐
Respect
-‐
Civility
✦ Trust
–
depend
on
&
believe
in
you
&
me
✦ Respect
–
value
I
have
for
myself
&
you
✦ Civility
–
beyond
courtesy
&
politeness
Create
and
sustain
a
genuinely
safe
space
to
allow
for
risk,
vulnerability,
shared
meaning,
and
breakthrough
thinking
“Trust
is
the
acAon
side
of
respect
–
show
your
respect
by
trusAng.
Caela
Farren
21. 21
Recap
Ladder
of
Inference
✦ All
rungs
take
place
in
your
head
✦ Is
unconscious
process
✦ Trip
up
the
ladder
is
rapid
✦ Seems
reasonable
✦ OXen
leads
to
misguided
beliefs
✦ Reflexive
loop
affects
the
data
you
select
next
.me
Awareness
&
Reflec?on
✓ Surface
your
own
thinking
✓ Capture
it
and
consider
it
✓ Think
about
your
Thinking
Advocacy
✓ Make
your
thinking
and
reasoning
visible
to
others
✓ Communicate
your
perspec.ve
Inquiry
✓ Listen
with
intent
to
learn
✓ Use
unaggressive
language
to
ques.on
and
learn
✓ Ask
self
and
others
WHY
22. 22
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More
Informa?on
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