Exploring “Happiness”
Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being defined by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. A variety of biological, psychological, religious and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources, though there are various definitions exists, We all have an experience of happiness. In this session we will explore different dimensions and some possible paths to attain happiness.
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• quick time check
• expectations
• be present
• my role and your role
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today
small exercise on mindfulness
barriers for happiness
exploring happiness
sustaining happiness
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let’s pause !
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judgement, lack of attention
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mindfulness
• small exercise / experience
00:10
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instructions
• please follow the instructions
• It is “Okay” if you don’t
• Observe your experience
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share
• can we share and learn ?
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“happiness” ?
• your perspectives
00:15
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some background
• Coaching
• What makes people happy ?
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one
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where is happiness ?
Body Mind You
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where is happiness ?
• What we are doing ?
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two
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happiness (p,e,m)
• P – pleasure
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happiness
• E – Engagement
• commitment to some activity
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FLOW
• Prof. Mihaly Csikszentmihalay
• ease and grace
• absorbed - watching v/s playing cricket
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Challenge
Ability
Zone 1
Stress/ Fear Zone 2
FLOW
Zone 3
Boredom
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1930 experiment – Kids
punishment - allowed to play
Behave well - More work -
Challenge !
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(m)
engagement
pleasure
• ?
• ?
• acting in movies
• cooking
• playing cricket
• movies
• eating
• watching cricket
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pause and reflect
•
00:30
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H = P , E , M
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meaning
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purpose – bigger than self –
about others
• Searching for meaning
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seligman’s experiment
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long lasting
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is it better to happy now or
later?
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Present
Future
Determinant Benefit
Determinant
Nihilism
Stale food
(Unhealthy and poor
taste)
Hedonism
Junk Food
(Unhealthy but tasty)
Benefit
Rat Race
Health food
(Healthy but tasteless)
Happiness
Ideal food
(healthy and tasty)
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how can I be happy now?
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I like it
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meaning
engagement
pleasure
• purpose
• others
• acting in movies
• cooking
• playing cricket
• movies
• eating
• watching cricket
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but
• constraints of time and money
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start small
00:45
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my inspiration
• Service Space (Video)
• http://www.servicespace.org/
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sustaining …
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It is one of the most
beautiful compensation of
this life that no man can
sincerely try to help another
without helping himself -
Emerson
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gratitude
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10 days – gratitude exercise
• Buddha
• happens for good
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let’s start with what we
already have
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“let go”
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“It was like I had been chasing after something and suddenly
I just stopped and looked around me. I stopped inside and my
mind became peaceful and clear. We don’t know what it means
to let go … to discover that nothing is permeant and we invent
numerous beliefs to protect us from the fear of letting go. We
are frightened of letting go because we have postponed it. I
believe that only through that act will my mind be free and able
to experience what true freedom is”
- Marc Foster Screen Writer , Director “The Kite Runner”
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summary
• reflect and share
• what is your take away?
00:60
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Pause
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• write to me at mithare@gmail.com
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