qualities required to be successful in life

1. Life & Success- Missing links Dr.Vijay Sardana MD,DM Head,Deptt. Of Neurology, Member Medical Education Unit Medical College, Kota

3. Responsive, creative & Independent adult

7. Those who fail Most people fail not because of lack of ability or intelligence but because of lack of desire, direction, Dedication & discipline. - Shiv Khera

14. Motivation Motivation – Drive that encourage action or feeling. Process of inducing and improving anyone to perform more productively and efficiently. Catalyst

16. Motivation “ One machine can do the work of 50 0rdinary men. No machine can do the work of one motivated man”

22. Theories of Motivation Herzberg's Theory - Hygiene - Status, job security, salary & future security - Motivators – Challenging work, recognition, responsibility

24. Set a goal

26. Goal S - Specific M - Measurable A - Achievable R - Realistic T - Time Bound

28. Have positive attitude

32. Elements of success Attitude Skill Knowledge

38. Self Esteem High Self Esteem Low Self esteem . Talk about ideas . Talk about people . Respect authority . Rebels against authority . Concern about character . Concern about reputation . Accepts Responsibility . Blame the whole world . Discuss . Argue

39. World, my son starts school today World, take my child by the hand--he starts school today! It is all going to be strange and new to him for a while, and I wish you would sort of treat him gently. You see, up to now, he has been king of the roost. He has been the boss of the backyard. I have always been around to repair his wounds, and I have always been handy to soothe his feelings. But now things are going to be different. This morning he is going to walk down the front steps, wave his hand, and start on a great adventure that probably will include wars and tragedy and sorrow.To live in this world will require faith and love and courage. So, World, I wish you would sort of take him by his young hand and teach him the things he will have to know. Teach him-but gently, if you can. contnd…

40. World, my son starts school today He will have to learn, I know, that all people are not just that all men and women are not true. Teach him that for every scoundrel, there is a hero; that for every enemy, there is a friend. Let him learn early that the bullies are the easiest people to lick. Teach him the wonder of books. Give him quiet time to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun, and flowers on a green hill. Teach him that it is far more honorable to fail than to cheat. Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him they are wrong. Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when everyone else is getting on the bandwagon. Teach him to listen to others, but to filter all he hears on a screen of truth and to take only the good that comes through. condt…..

41. World, my son starts school today Teach him never to put a price tag on his heart and soul. Teach him to close his ears on the howling mob-and to stand and fight if he thinks he is right. Teach him gently, World, but do not coddle him, because only the test of fire makes fine steel. This is a big order, World, but see what you can do. He is such a nice son. - Signed, Abraham Lincoln * adapted from "Pulpit Helps" February 1991, quoted in Apple Seeds, Volume 10, No.1,1994 .

42. Be Enthusiastic

44. Except 100% Responsibility

45. Society Know Rights/Privileges more then Responsibility/Obligation?

48. Identify & avoid Negative People

50. How value system change Intolerable Acceptable Involvement Constant Exposure Constant Exposure Self justification

51. ‘ Frenemies’

55. Winner – State of mind If you think you’ll lose , You are lost For out in the World We find Success begin with a Fellow’s Will It’s all in the state of mind Man who wins Is the man who thinks he can

57. Be Committed

62. Be Willing To Pay The price for your dream

63. Story of a Doctor Main 12v me Tha Wo 12v me Thi

64. Main MBBS me Tha Wo BSc me Thi Main MBBS me Tha Wo MSc me Thi

65. Main MBBS me Tha Wo PHD me Thi Main MBBS me Tha Wo Dr ban gai

66. Uski Shadi hui Maine PG entrance diya Wo do bachcho ki ma bani Main MD kar raha Tha

67. Bachche 5 saal ke hoker school jane lage Main post PG karne laga Bachche 10 th pass ho gaye Maine hospital shuru kiya

68. Afsos bas ye hai ki aaj wo Tubectomy karane aayi hai AUR Aaj meri Sagai hai…….

69. Be predictable, dependable & Loyal

70. BE LOYAL “ An ounce of Loyalty is worth more than a pound of cleverness.”

71. Become expert in the field

72. Always indulge in Constructive Criticism

75. Believe in reasoning & have critical thinking

88. Stay focused & Focus on your strengths

92. Don’t Argue

93. Try to maintain your cool in tense situation

94. Discuss, don’t argue Discussion Argument . Throws light . Throws heat . Comes from an open mind . Closed mind . Exchange of knowledge . Exchange of ignorance . Expression of logic . Expression of temper . Prove what is right . Tries to prove what is right

105. Who is educated ( Socrates 470 – 399 BC) True broad based education proposes student for life without losing their area of specialization & competence.

106. Learn from your mistakes

108. Change with changing time

109. change “ In life we cannot avoid change we cannot avoid loss, Freedom & happiness are found in the flexibility & ease with which we move through change” - Buddha

111. Be a good listener

113. Give more than you get